How to be better, not bitter
We all have Pain
The Pain of Inexperience
The Pain of Disappointment
The Pain of Conflict
The Pain of Financial Loss
The Pain of Wasted Time
The Pain of Embarrassment
The Pain of Rejection
The Pain of Failure
The question I have for you, though, is, does your pain make you bitter or better?
Examining your disappointments can uncover valuable insights about yourself. Ask yourself what went wrong, how you contributed to the situation, and what you can do differently in the future? Through self-reflection, you can pinpoint areas for growth and continuous improvement, enabling you to be successful in your musical journey.
“Every problem introduces a person to himself.”
When you experience pain or disappointment, it's an opportunity for innovation and creativity. Author Neal Donald Walsh believes creativity begins at the end of your comfort zone. I agree entirely; pain can be like rocket fuel when you use it to solve problems.
Don't just feel your way to positive change; think your way. It's crucial to pause, reflect, and think our way through change to ensure you're making good choices.
Thinking through pain involves taking a step back and considering the bigger picture. It's an opportunity to analyze the practicality and consequences of your actions. You can weigh the pros and cons, assess potential risks, and evaluate the impact of your next steps for yourself and others
“No pain, no palm; no thorns, no throne; no gall,
no glory; no cross, no crown.”
There's a difference between blaming yourself and taking responsibility. Acknowledging your part in a situation (intentionally or not) opens your mind to a pathway to overcome. Blame is blinding and energy-sucking. Say to yourself, "This was upsetting; what can I do differently next time to have a positive experience?"
Remember, negative experiences have value; the key is seeing the value sooner rather than later. When things go wrong, it's easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. We get caught up in the immediate frustration or disappointment, failing to see the potential for growth and change. You can choose to view experiences as learning opportunities rather than setbacks. By reframing your mindset, you can extract lessons from even the most painful experiences while dealing with them.
A setback in our career can inspire us to pursue a new path that aligns more closely with our purpose. Negative experiences can be catalysts for transformation if we allow them to be.
Candace
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